RELATIONSHIPS
Simple Ways To Improve Communication In Your Relationship
By STEPHANIE HARPER
Ask Thoughtful Questions
Whether the relationship is new or has been happening for years, it’s important to show your partner that you’re curious about them, and asking thoughtful questions is a great way to do that. Ask them about childhood memories, their biggest fears, or when they first knew they loved you.
Be A Better Listener
The New York Times says that you can become a better listener by being fully present in the moment while your partner is talking. When your partner feels like they are being listened to, it’s easier for them to open up to you about whatever is on their mind, so always lend them a listening ear.
Never Assume
Making assumptions in the middle of a conversation is one of the biggest mistakes you can make, as it means you’re taking things for granted without accepting any proof. If you are willing to wait for your partner to finish saying what’s on their mind, it will save you a lot of drama in the long run.
Use ‘I’ Phrases
Good therapy explains that when you use “I” statements, it allows you to focus on your own personal feelings or beliefs rather than coming across like you’re trying to speak for your partner. TonyRobbins.com adds that using “I” statements prevents you from shifting blame onto your partner.
Chat Throughout The Day
Chatting with your partner throughout the day via text, email, FaceTime, or phone calls is a great way to stay communicative, and showcases a mutual interest in each other. Just make sure you’re chatting because you both want to, and not because you feel like you have to.