20 Best Gift Ideas For The Self-Care Fan

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Self-care used to be somewhat of a taboo. It was reserved for those who were deemed by society as high-maintenance or for those people thought of as being vanity-obsessed with too much time on their hands. Mothers were labeled selfish and neglectful if they dared take a moment away from their kids to indulge in a candle-lit bubble bath. Hard-working employees were viewed as unfocused if they stepped away from the job for a momentary mental break. A single woman with no children would receive sideways glances if she mentioned that she schedules monthly massages.

Then, somewhere in recent times, society started to realize that trying to pour from an empty cup can cause more harm than good. "Self-care is important because it enhances our well-being by keeping us connected to ourselves and what matters most," says clinical psychologist Kaylee Crocket (via The University of Alabama at Birmingham). "It can help prevent illnesses from occurring or recurring, and it builds our capacity to handle stress and recover from adversity." 

It's likely that in this day and age most of us have people in our lives who take their self-care routine very seriously, and what better way to cater to their mental health than by gifting them tools to add to their regimen? To help out the self-care lover in your circle, we've scoped out some of the best products on the market for a complete holiday gift guide.

Wine, chocolate, candles, and a relaxing bubble bath — we really can't think of better items to create a luxurious spa day. Giving someone the gift of bringing the spa to their own home is perfect for anyone in need of some unwinding time.

With an Amazon shop featuring thousands of glowing reviews, it's safe to say Hickory Farms doesn't disappoint. The company's Holiday Cheers Sparkling Wine and Spa Gift Set features all of the essentials your loved one will need for a dreamy spa day at home. Complete with wine, chocolate, a relaxing candle, a bath bomb, a brightening face mask, and shea butter hand cream, your recipient will be thanking you for months to come — if they can somehow force their way out of the tub.

Purchase the Hickory Farms Holiday Cheers Sparkling Wine and Spa Gift Set from Hickory Farms for $75.

We all know that nails are a solid part of any self-care routine, and sometimes it can be hard to shop for someone who loves doing their own — they probably have it all! How to combat this? Go for a nail kit that offers healthier ingredients than what they already probably have.

Glu is a clean nail company that offers a variety of all-natural products. The OG GLU DIY At-Home Manicure Kit is ideal for someone looking to try out better alternatives to the strong chemicals we're used to in nail care. One raving reviewer states, "The custom packaging is thoughtfully designed and all of the items in the kit are clean and accessible in a beautiful range of colors. The interactive video tutorials are thorough and just plain fun and the phone holder makes it easy to chat with friends during your mani!"

Purchase the OG GLU DIY At-Home Manicure Kit from Glu for $50.

For those who are interested and invested in their spirituality, reading tarot can be a soothing and mind-easing aspect of self-care — especially when a tarot deck is geared specifically towards self-care needs.

Jill Pyle, the creator of the monthly subscription box Goddess Provisions, has released an oracle deck that is said to tune into exactly what your mind, body, and spirit are in need of the most. The deck has a 4.9 rating with over 3,000 reviews on Amazon – many of which state how refreshing the art on the cards is and how this is a must-have deck for those who are in need of self-awareness.

Purchase the Sacred Self-Care Oracle from Amazon for $18.

Tea time is truly a magical self-care escape. It can transport us from a boring Monday at the office into a sweet, aromatic, getaway to a far-off country we've always dreamed of traveling to. The herbs found in tea can even be beneficial to our physical health.

The VAHDAM Weekend In Paris Tea Set proves to be just that — a weekend escape to the enchanting city of love. The packaging itself is enough to have us saying bonjour to la vie en rose, and it just so happens that pink is often thought of as the color of self-love (via Becky Prater). What's more, reviewers are exceptionally pleased. "This is beautiful tea, totally authentic, [and] tastes amazing," writes an Amazon reviewer.

Purchase the VAHDAM Weekend in Paris Tea Set from Amazon for $24.

Does drinking wine scientifically qualify as self-care? Not exactly, but the CDC reports that enjoying an occasional glass of wine in moderation is safe. Having friends over for a relaxing wine night or sipping on some red wine during a decadent bubble bath can do wonders after a stressful day, and according to Healthline, can even provide some health benefits.

What we love about wine company Usual Wines is that it gives us the option to purchase individual small bottles for single-serving. This way, the amount of alcohol you're consuming is moderated, and your gift recipient will have an assortment of options including red, brut, and rosé. "When I just want a glass or two, I can enjoy it without having to toss out half of a regular-sized bottle the next day because the bubbles have gone flat," writes a five-star reviewer. "I keep a few bottles chilled at all times!"

Purchase the Usual Wines Mixed Pack from Usual Wines for $48.

We can't think of a better gift of self-care for a busy mom than the gift of some time away. Because the important job of being a mother offers no days off, giving the moms in your life an opportunity to take a break for a while is a gift they will truly never forget.

Tinggly is a company that offers gifts of experiences. The Superwoman Collection is a five-star rated gift card that allows you to purchase a voucher for the super-mom — or any amazing woman, for that matter — in your life, and she can choose an experience out of 1,900 options in over 100 countries. Whether it's an experience in your own city or one on an upcoming trip she has planned, you can purchase an experience for one (great if mom needs some solo time), or two (if mom wants to bring along a friend).

Purchase the Tinggly Superwoman from Tinggly for $90.

We have to give it up to our regular gym-goers — your motivation and dedication are truly inspiring. Physical fitness is perhaps the number one aspect of self-care because it not only keeps your body strong and healthy, but it does the same to your mind.

While physical health may already be one of the greatest gifts one could have, helping the fitness-lover in your life further their self-care routine even more is perfect for their workout regimen. The Good Hippie's Recover & Unwind Athlete's Box is a trio of post-workout recovery body care products. With a 4.8 rating on Faire, the company's products are a favorite among consumers.

Purchase the Good Hippie's Recover & Unwind Athlete's Box from Uncommon Goods for $66.

The holidays add an immense touch of sparkle and joy to any self-care routine, and this includes snuggling up for those holiday binge-worthy movies we invest ourselves in each year. There's just something about slipping into warm PJs and curling up with a toasty mug of hot cocoa that can push any day on an upward turn.

Gifting holiday pajamas can be cute and appreciated, but in order for your special person to get the most out of their present, opt for giving them a cozy set that can be worn after the holidays are over, too. Cozy Earth's Long Sleeve Bamboo Pajamas in Stretch-Knit have a 4.9 rating and are here to bring us maximum comfort, breathability, and a wide option of sizes. The stretch-knit regulates temperature throughout wear, so those movie-thons next to the fireplace are sure not to get too hot.

Purchase the Cozy Earth Long Sleeve Bamboo Pajamas in Stretch-Knit from Cozy Earth for $111.

Not only is listening to music a self-care ritual in and of itself but playing music during any method of self-care practice can enhance the overall experience and mood. This is exactly why it's important to ensure that music is being played with the right equipment.

The Life Q30 Headphones from Soundcore by Anker offer noise-canceling technology for the ultimate self-care experience. With a comfortable fit, 40 hours of playtime, and high-resolution sound, relaxation will become easier than ever before. "So impressed by the noise cancellation, it's like magic," one reviewer exclaims. "At the gym, I put them on my head and already loads of sound is blocked out. But then I turn them on (without music) and it blocks out all the sound of the machines, even though there's no music playing."

Purchase the Soundcore by Anker Life Q30 Headphones from Amazon for $85.

Leaving out art on any self-care list is arguably a crime. Creating is one of the most beneficial, enlightening, and thought-provoking experiences we as humans can have. Even if we don't consider ourselves creative per se, art is subjective and can be more about the process than the result.

The Sculptd Pottery Kit is a child or adult beginner-friendly set of everything needed to create your own piece of pottery. The kit includes air-dry clay for molding, paint for decorating, clear varnish for a glazed-like effect, tools, and a step-by-step instruction guide with video tutorials to help you along the way. "I've been conducting my own search for the best air-dry clay and I have finally found it — Sculpd!" shares a reviewer. "Their clay is smooth, pliable, and does not crack while working with it. It is pleasurable to use and produces high-quality sculptures. I'm obsessed!"

Purchase the Sculptd Pottery Kit from Sculptd for $65.