The Biggest Red Flags Lauren Boebert's Marriage Wasn't Going To Last, Per Our Matchmaker

Lauren Boebert wore one of the most inappropriate outfits at Trump's inauguration in January 2025, so she's used to making fashion fails. But that's not her only experience with misfortune, as the Colorado representative has been unlucky in love as well. She got married to Jayson Boebert in 2005 but sadly announced in 2023 that they would be divorcing. Susan Trombetti, matchmaker and CEO of Exclusive Matchmaking, tells Glam exclusively that there were clear signs the couple's marriage was headed for a split: "The red flags were volatility in the marriage mostly on his part. [Jayson] certainly has a temper."

Furthermore, Lauren's high-profile job could have put a stain on the marriage by making the couple unlikely to compromise. "Her rising power and notoriety along with her inability to back down probably led to the breakdown of her marriage. You can't have two volatile people in a relationship because there is no de-escalation in a disagreement or true communication," Trombetti explains. Separation from loved ones due to work also doesn't help. "A campaign, the travel, and the time away is stressful. It's also stressful being in the spotlight although she is even more so due to her combative politics," Trombetti says.

The matchmaker adds that Lauren's career "probably upset the balance" between her and Jayson. "Her extreme political views launched her even more from the frying pan into the fire. Having the marriage in the spotlight like that had to be a dynamic neither her nor husband was accustomed to dealing with," she tells us. But what could this couple have done to make it work in the long run?

Lauren Boebert's high-level job likely put more attention on the problems in her marriage, Susan Trombetti explains. "She is strong-willed for sure and assertive, but the status quo was probably not connecting the dots along the way until the media shoved it in her face. She must have had a reckoning although I don't know what her final straw was or could be," Trombetti exclusively tells Glam, adding that Lauren could've also found herself "in a bit of denial about his behavior." 

"As in any marriage, it was probably too many to count until the straw that broke the camel's back," the matchmaker says. According to Trombetti, the couple could have benefited from "counseling for Jayson and anger management to get to the root of his temper." As for Lauren, Trombetti recommends that the politician hone her communication skills so that similar issues don't arise in the future.

Now, it appears Lauren and Jayson Boebert have worked through the grieving process of a divorce to maintain a civil friendship. When Lauren became subject to criticism, Jayson came to her defense by posting a confession on Facebook. "I take full responsibility for my actions, and I deeply regret the choices I made that led to the breakdown of our marriage. I was unfaithful to Lauren in so many ways," he wrote. The representative seems to be happily moving on, as rumors about Lauren Boebert's love life are heating up.