Melanie Griffith's Post-Divorce Transformation Was A Sight To See

The following article includes discussions of addiction.

Despite the negative stigma surrounding divorce and separation, in recent years, women have been reframing the narrative by proving that they are living happier lives after filing for divorce, and Melanie Griffith is no exception. Griffith is an acclaimed actor who had her big break in 1975. Throughout her career, she has been widely recognized for her roles, and she earned a Golden Globe for her portrayal of Tess McGill in "Working Girl." Although her numerous nominations put her in the spotlight, Griffith also has garnered attention for her substance abuse and turbulent relationships — particularly her scandalous link to Spanish actor and producer Antonio Banderas, whom she married in 1996 after divorcing actor Don Johnson. Banderas and Griffith welcomed their daughter Stella the same year.

After nearly two decades together, Griffith and Banderas' marriage broke down the same way it started, with tabloids chronicling every step. Griffith filed for divorce in 2014, and while she cited "irreconcilable differences" for their separation, they have maintained their respect for one another throughout the process. Griffith also has quite a reputation for blending families. With three kids after three divorces, she surely has co-parenting down to a science, which speaks volumes about her friendly relationships with her ex-husbands.

Still, Griffith's life transformed after her divorce, and it shows. While she experienced loss and loneliness, she found fulfillment and freedom as a single woman, too. A 2025 study by Mishcon, Julius Baer, and NOON found that around one in three women aged 45 to 65 feel relieved after a midlife divorce, and now in her daring 60s, Griffith likely agrees with the research, seeing as she's evolved into a proudly independent woman and fitness icon.

In 2016, Griffith attended the Vanity Fair Oscar Party wearing a chic all-black look that suggested she was mourning her relationship. Though her crystal earrings made her glow outwardly, her true journey was within. Less than one year after her divorce from Banderas, Griffith had already started her personal growth journey and was making headlines about her next chapter. Despite feeling disconnected from her sense of self, the actor said she felt inspired. "I'm having a very introspective time right now ... It's an interesting time," she told People at the time. "I'm single, and lonely, and bored, and confused – but then at the same time, totally curious," Griffith added. Tabloids worked overtime to expose aspects of Griffith's personal life in the past, but the "Something Wild" star proved she was ready to reclaim her narrative by speaking openly to the media.

Griffith also opened up about how her children leaving home massively contributed to her loneliness. While Stella Banderas is Antonio Banderas' only child, Griffith has two other children: Alexander Bauer and actor Dakota Johnson. Her empty house may have taken an emotional toll on Griffith, but one thing was certain: she wasn't looking for someone to fill the empty space. "I'm not really looking, I'm just being, and I figure if I'm meant to have another relationship, I will, and if I'm not, then I won't," she told People.

By 2017, Griffith was reflecting on her recovery from addiction and was focused on building friendships. At "The Pirates of Somalia" premiere, she stepped onto the red carpet looking a little lighter. While her slouchy turtleneck sweater added a casual element to her look, her glossy beige skirt enhanced the sense of newness to her appearance. Griffith finished her fresh outfit with a pair of beige heels and a shiny gold clutch. While she still donned her signature bouffant updo and bold makeup look, featuring dark eyeliner and cherry-red lip gloss, Griffith's outlook on life had taken a 180-degree turn.

The actor no longer felt lost. In an interview with Net-a-Porter, she opened up about the freedom that came with her divorce. "I think part of the reason my marriage to Antonio fell apart was because I was stuck," she said (via People). "I want to enjoy life, I want to do whatever I want to do," she added. The actor explained that she has also changed the way she approaches relationships and has become skeptical about dating. "I don't go on dates, nobody has asked me on a date. I go out with my girlfriends," Griffith said. At this point, not only had she made some high-profile friendships, including a new bond with Kardashian momager Kris Jenner, but Griffith had also maintained her positive relationship with Banderas. That year, she posted a throwback photo on Instagram and thanked her oldest friend for his birthday wishes.

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In 2020, Griffith's hope for the future and self-esteem seemed to increase. The actor was spotted in Los Angeles wearing a bodycon midi dress with a geometric diamond print, suggesting she had begun making daring wardrobe choices. Clad in shades of blue, burgundy, and white, Griffith softened her bold look by wearing lighter eye makeup and letting her hair down — in more ways than one. In an interview with People, Griffith said her single life had offered more opportunities than she thought possible. "After getting divorced and with my kids all grown, there's endless possibilities!" she said. "I've been taking this time to figure out my future ... I go to a lot of online meetings for my recovery. And I'm writing a memoir," she added. One passion she knew would stay with her moving forward was her commitment to fitness.

In 2021, Griffith made headlines for her workout routine. The actor had long been recognized as a mature fitness icon, but at 63, after posting a video of her personal training session on Instagram, Griffith's comments section was flooded with compliments. Wearing Alo Yoga leggings and a black T-shirt, the actor performed an array of weighted exercises, including ab work, forward-sliding push-ups, squats, and chest presses. "You go girl, I'm also up there but you work out a lot harder!" one person wrote. "Hard! Very hard effort!" another added.

As of 2026, Melanie Griffith may have ditched her filler, but other things haven't changed that much. Griffith continues to have an amazing friendship with her ex-husband, Antonio Banderas. This pairing found their relationship back in the headlines after they were captured leaving a restaurant and linking arms on an unexpected evening in Los Angeles in April. Their daughter, Stella, and her husband, Alex Gruszynski, joined them for dinner. For the occasion, Griffith embraced a biker-inspired aesthetic, pairing a black leather jacket with fingerless gloves. Along with her edgier look, her fresh, shorter hairstyle hinted that she was still enjoying her newfound sense of freedom and willingness to experiment with her fashion. 

Shortly after the family dinner, Banderas posted a photograph on Instagram that nodded to the evening and gave fans a glimpse into their blended family. "A lovely and fun moment yesterday in Los Angeles with my son-in-law Alex, my daughter Stella, and my ex-wife and lifelong friend, Melanie," Banderas wrote.

A month later, Griffith once again made headlines after she was spotted out in Los Angeles — this time, alone. The actor was photographed running errands wearing a trendy pair of wide-leg blue jeans and a beige blouse. Her aviator-shaped sunglasses and glossy bronze loafers — a major trend in 2026 — enhanced her edginess and complemented her new trim. While her cream lace gloves make a fashionable statement, the book in her hand suggests Griffith has finally found comfort in solitude.