Zendaya And Tom Holland's Relationship Is Full Of Green Flags

In the world of the rich and famous, love seems to be as fleeting as the big blockbusters and bops of a summer. In fact, over the years, we've seen so many celeb couples who called off their weddings with days to spare that our faith in true love is one breakup away from entirely disappearing. That said, while enduring love in Hollywood seems to be a rarity, those who have found it are the reason our faith is holding on — even if it's just by a thread. And a couple who warms our hearts is definitely Zendaya and Tom Holland, two actors whose relationship has kept our faith in romance alive since 2016.

Zendaya and Holland are a beloved celebrity couple for many reasons, but most of all because fans see numerous green flags in the duo's behavior. To understand Tomdaya's appeal even more, we've enlisted the help of Teresha Young, a multi-award-winning international wellness and relationship coach. Exclusively for Glam, Young shared her professional insight into why the two "Spider-Man" stars have such a solid relationship. While the two actors are very popular together, as many consider them one of Hollywood's best it-couples, the expert tells us that the public's approval of their romance most likely doesn't mean that much to them. "Ultimately, a healthy relationship is built on the connection between two people, not on approval or validation from an audience," Young shares. And after speaking to the relationship coach, it's clear to us that Tomdaya is all about nourishing those green flags they have.

If there's one pattern we can think of when it comes to Hollywood romances that last, it's that keeping the relationship private is generally the best way to go. While Zendaya and Tom Holland have shared teeny-tiny glimpses of their relationship here and there over the years, a majority of their romance remains hidden from the piercing eye of the public. "One of the biggest perks of keeping a relationship private, especially in Hollywood, is that it gives the couple a chance to focus on each other instead of all the outside noise," Teresha Young tells us exclusively. "Fame can bring a lot of scrutiny, speculation, and unsolicited opinions, and that can put extra pressure on a relationship."

Zendaya and Holland have been so good at keeping a low profile that it took a while before their wedding was confirmed. In spring 2026, Zendaya's stylist Law Roach confirmed that the two stars had already tied the knot, and months later, Holland also addressed the wedding, revealing that their families were in attendance. To have kept their nuptials a secret was a smart move, according to our expert. "Relationships need space to breathe and grow, and choosing what to keep private can create a healthy boundary between the relationship and the outside world. It helps the couple stay grounded in what actually matters: the quality of their connection and how they feel with each other," Young shares, adding, "Another big benefit is that it helps protect the intimacy of the relationship. Not every conversation, challenge, milestone, or sweet moment needs to be shared with the public." While Zendaya and Holland aren't necessarily hiding their love at all, they are deliberately choosing just what parts of their life together they want to display to the public.

Name one Hollywood couple who have gushed about each other's talent as much as Zendaya and Tom Holland have. Nobody else comes to mind? We don't blame you. Tomdaya has undeniably set the bar for supporting your partner extremely high. "Their supportive nature suggests a relationship built on mutual admiration, appreciation, thoughtfulness, and consideration. The fact that Tom created a drink Zendaya could genuinely enjoy, even though she is not typically a beer drinker, shows that he pays attention to her likes and dislikes and wants to include her in something that matters to him," Teresha Young tells us exclusively, referring to Holland's non-alcoholic drink Bero, which the actor launched in 2026. In the product's release statement, Holland explained how the drink came to be, sharing, "To be honest, I created the BERO Shandy for Z. She's never been a beer drinker, so I wanted to bring something new to the table that she could enjoy" (via People). For Young, this is a clear sign that Holland is attuned with Zendaya's preferences. "Gestures like that can say, 'I see you, I value you, and what matters to you matters to me.'"

Whether they are gushing about each other's acting talents or supporting each other's philanthropic endeavors, the two have been there for each other for years, creating a support system built on love and admiration. Young adds that everything we've seen them do for each other is a major green flag. "It also points to a relationship where they genuinely champion each other," she says. "In healthy partnerships, people tend to take an active interest in each other's passions, goals, and achievements. They genuinely want to see the other person thrive."

While being close to your partner's family doesn't necessarily have to impact your romantic relationship, in many cases it does. Of course, it depends on how close your partner is to their own family, and whether they expect you to get along with them, too. But in Zendaya and Tom Holland's case, it certainly seems as if getting along with each other's families is a must. "Many couples would love to mesh well with each other's families, but of course, that is not always simple or possible," Teresha Young shares exclusively with Glam, adding that "Family dynamics can be complicated, and things like estrangement, cultural differences, or distance can all shape those relationships." The expert adds that "when partners make an effort with each other's families, it can show a willingness to understand and embrace the wider world their partner comes from."

While Holland's parents are happily married, Zendaya's parents divorced in 2016. This alone can cause the two to have entirely different family dynamics. Both actors have siblings; Holland has three brothers, while Zendaya has five half-siblings — three sisters and two brothers. Judging from the outside, it certainly seems as if their families have welcomed the actors' relationship and neither of the two had to deal with a partner's overbearing family. "Feeling welcomed by a partner's family can also add another layer of support around the relationship. In Tom and Zendaya's case, the ease they seem to have around each other's families suggests comfort and integration," Young explains. "It gives the impression of two people connecting with each other and also making space for the important people in each other's lives. When that happens, it can feel like the couple is building a shared life together."

Throughout the years, both Zendaya and Tom Holland have spoken about being each other's best friends. In fact, back when they first started working together on "Spider-Man: Homecoming," Holland gushed about how much Zendaya helped him cope with the fame. "We are like the best of friends. She's so great and amazing," Holland told People at the time (via ABC). "I'm a little worried [about dealing with fame ... but] Zendaya is super famous and she's been through this, and I just call her up and say, 'How do I manage being famous?' I'm very glad I have a friend like her." Years later, the two are still each other's rock, both privately and professionally. In fact, a decade after Holland revealed how much Zendaya helped him deal with fame, the star once again shared a similar sentiment.

"There are ups and downs, you go from shooting a movie, which is when we're all at our most comfortable, and then you do a press tour, which feels like you're kind of standing out on the stage," Holland said on the "Good Hang with Amy Poehler" podcast in 2026. "It's so nice to have someone that understands that in such a personal way so that you can talk each other down or you can pick each other up ... It's a lifeline. I couldn't imagine doing what I do without her." It's clear that Zendaya's support means the world to Holland, and it's no secret that supporting your partner as they chase their dream is a major green flag.

While Zendaya and Tom Holland have become a powerhouse Hollywood duo, especially given that they also star together in the 2026 epic film "The Odyssey," the truth is that the two have also nurtured each other's growth. Always supporting each other's endeavors, Zednaya and Holland have grown individually, on both a personal and professional level. "Another green flag that stands out is the balance they seem to have between keeping their individual identities and building a strong partnership," Teresha Young explains exclusively to Glam. "Healthy relationships need room for both the 'I' and the 'we.' Even when a couple is building a life together, it is still important for each person to keep growing, pursuing their own goals, and staying connected to who they are as an individual."

Working in the same industry undeniably helped them understand each other better, but often sharing a workspace with a partner can be constraining for personal growth. However, Tomdaya managed just fine, proving that support and understanding can work wonders, showcasing that Hollywood still has room for true love. "Rather than seeming to lose themselves in the relationship, they appear to be building something that makes space for both personal growth and shared connection, and that is a healthy balance," Young shares.